Christmas Window Dressing
I have a love/hate relationship with Christmas. Well, maybe hate is too strong a word. Disappointment is probably more accurate. I love the scents, the sounds and the sights--the food of course--and all the holiday trimmings. I love having both my children home for more than just a few days and that I have 5 siblings, 9 nieces and nephews and we’re all together on Christmas Eve having a great time. I love that now, when I look outside my kitchen windows I can see though the bare branches of the trees surrounding my backyard and watch the changing colors of the sky as the sun comes up. I even love watching corny holiday movies all month while I wrap gifts and decorate the house.
What I don’t love is that the thought of Christmas is so much more than the actual event.
It’s the thought that generosity can gain ground over self-interest and that the power of love is recognized as no match for fear. It’s the thought that we can simplify, stay still a while and capture the peace we all want. It’s the thought that we all can be a little kinder and that no one need be alone. Is this too much to ask? If this is the season for miracles, I want this kind of Christmas.
In spite of what’s going on in our collective world, in our personal one, can we recapture the innocence of a world we’ve forgotten?
I ponder this as I’m putting the finishing touches on a new wreath I’m making for my kitchen window. This one is filled with red and burgundy silk petals, dried red chili peppers and cranberries. It’s a happy wreath make from a state of peaceful meditation. I hang it lovingly.
And as I go through each act of preparing my home for all the students I will welcome to my kitchen and for the family that will gather there, I see in my actions a reflection of that which I seek so strongly.
If the thought of Christmas is what inspires me to lovingly create the holiday magic throughout my home, then isn’t my home filled with its true meaning? And from its warm embrace, do I quite naturally extend the kindness and the love that I want to see. The ribbons and bows are just…. pretty window dressing.
May the joy of this holiday fill your hearts and homes and extent to all that you do and feel.
Yours truly,
Chef Silvia
